Cigars, Drake's London, Fragrance, Hermes, Menswear, Preppy, Ralph Lauren

All I want for Christmas

Another year has flown by, marked by new suits and a touch of tweed—a perfect moment to reflect on the year gone by and, of course, plan for the one ahead. It’s been inspiring to see the growing momentum toward vintage clothing, a refreshing shift from the fast fashion that dominates today. Ralph Lauren has embraced this trend brilliantly, buying back vintage pieces to resell to a market eager for timeless style.

In my own household, I’ve revived my Gucci horsebit loafers purchased from Harrods back in 1998. My sons have also raided my wardrobe, claiming treasures like a pair of vintage Fendi aviator glasses and several Hermès ties that have made appearances at social occasions throughout the year.

And so, once again, it’s time to draft my Christmas list for Santa. This marks my second “Dear Santa” note, and looking back at the last one I published a few years ago, I can’t help but notice how little has changed. So here it is—my Christmas list for 2025.

Winston Churchill’s famous “teddy bear” coat an oversized, double-breasted fur coat he often wore during the 1930s and 1940s. It became an iconic symbol of his bold, eccentric style that I very much admire.

1. Geo F. Trumper Eucris Eau de Toilette

This fragrance takes me back to a Mulberry scent I wore in the ’90s. It exudes quintessential British elegance and sophistication. Eucris is famously known as James Bond’s fragrance in Ian Fleming’s novel From Russia with Love—a true classic.

2. Ralph Lauren Madras Shirt

To pair effortlessly with my black dinner jacket and bow tie—juxtaposed against distressed, baggy jeans for that rebellious cocktail of formality and nonchalance.

3. Vintage fur coat.

Whilst we’re planning for the beach, winter is never far away. As I continue my style journey beyond the confines of suits, I’m always searching for new classics that break the traditional mold. At the top of my list for winter 2026 is a fur coat of flamboyant proportions—bold, unapologetic, and full of character. My goal? To pair it with an old Yankees cap in that rakish, sprezzatura style I so admire.

4. Preppy Striped Vintage Watch Strap

To frame my Bell & Ross with Ivy League charm.

5. Socks in a riot of colours

Because socks should never be boring—they’re the punctuation marks of a well considered outfit.

6. Tanqueray No 10. gin.

I absolutely love this gin—it’s a true classic that outshines all others. Perfect for a martini with a twist, and let’s not forget the bottle itself, which is undeniably stylish.

7. A Box of Partagas Serie D No. 4 Cigars
The perfect companion for late-night musings on style and life – my favourite.

8. Winston Churchill-Inspired Spectacles

I love horn rimmed spectacles, whilst I do not need glasses I feel as though the time might be approaching. Super elegant refined and considered.

9. Nicky Haslam Tea Towel – “Things Nicky Haslam Finds Common”

Because Nicky is a legend in style and design.

10. Dunhill Cigar Lighter

Because matches are common.

Any that’s a wrap, “if you can’t do it in style then don’t do it

Merry Christmas

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It’s Polo season

The Polo season will soon be upon us. Such a majestic and fabulous sport that goes hand in hand with sensational style. Polo is widely known as the sport of kings and there is no doubt that polo events are always associated with decadence.

Black Friday sales are all over the internet right now and what better time to sort your Polo look for the new year season. But what to wear? Here’s my take.

Polo days in London

During my time living in London, I was fortunate enough to have attended several prestigious Polo events on the Smiths Lawn in the Great Windsor Park, including the Queens Cup and Cartier International Polo Days. Pimms, white jeans, La Martina, polo boots, ponies, chukker’s, Hermès, beating sun and style, all spring to mind when I think back to those heady days.

My polo style back then in the late 90’s always included white chino’s, a blue oxford cutaway collar shirt, mandatory Hermès tie and blue blazer all paired with the infamous horse-bit Gucci loafers. My style in these days was influenced by James Hewitt, famous for his relationship with the late Princess Diana and someone who was always in attendance at the Polo, not least a regular in many of my favourite bars along Fulham Road.

Today the London days seem an age ago, however I still carry those fond memories and regularly draw on my memory bank of style from those times as I plan my New Zealand polo outfits.

Dressing for the Polo

Polo style is more casual than races style, however that doesn’t mean looks are any less stylish or sophisticated. To me Polo style is more daring, I love to mix bright colours along with traditional pieces to create that all important sprezzatura look.

My last polo look included mixing bright pink lightweight corduroy trousers with a more formal six button double breasted blazer, cutaway collar shirt along with a vintage Ralph Lauren tie, camo cap, and suede tasselled loafers. My goal was to introduce a look that challenged the conventional by matching a very formal blazer with loud corduroy’s.

For this season’s Polo in Christchurch’s so English, and so beautiful Hagley Park, I will again look to mix colour with tradition. This year I will be wearing high waisted linen trousers in what Ralph Lauren describes as resort orange. These will be paired with a cutaway collar shirt and preppy tie and a blazer; the colour and style will be determined nearer the time. During the Black Friday sales, I have managed to secure some super fab two-tone loafers from Duke + Dexter, and these will be a key part of my look.

Great style should always be complemented by great fragrance. I am connoisseur of fine fragrance and in particular those fragrances that have base notes that include Oud. Oud is a divine fragrance that has a rich woody, smoky, leather aroma to it, it is a favourite as it is very masculine and old world and works perfectly with my looks. Over the years I have worn many fragrances that have a heavy Oud influence, including Leather Oud by Floris of London, Oud Wood by Tom Ford and Bois dAscese by Naomi Goodsir. Recently I have been wearing a new luxury New Zealand fragrance by Frater called Dynasty. Frater, describe Dynasty as ‘the scent of empires. The opening melds costly saffron and aged leather with the celebrated oil of oud Assafi, the most expensive perfume ingredient in the world’. I must say it’s been a joy to wear, and it will be a part of my look for next year’s Polo.

Women’s wear.

Whilst I don’t tend to write about women’s wear, I do want to call out these fab mules from Kat Maconie. I came across them last week at an event organised by Christchurch’s Shoe Curator, a store that is really bringing something new to New Zealand that is so needed. I’m a firm believer that shoes are the most important aspect of a wardrobe, shoes have the power to both make or break a look, from a women’s perspective you surely need nothing else.

Finally

It’s worth highlighting that I am not sponsored in anyway by any brand, these are my thoughts as to what I see as stylishly fabulous.

The Polo season is fast approaching, it’s the sport of kings and if you’re going dress like you mean it.

If you can’t do it in style don’t do it!

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Belts, Buckles & Gurkhas

One evening late last year, I received a video call from a friend who had recently moved to Hong Kong on a three month secondment. For this young gentleman, this was his first posting abroad and first Asian experience. The call caught me off-guard as it was rather late and to my surprise there was my friend all dressed for his first corporate event. However he had a predicament, which belt should he wear, or should he wear a belt at all? He stood there in his 5 star hotel room bemused, holding a belt up, “which one?” he asked. “Goodness, how fortunate could a young chap be?” I thought. He was about to hit some of Hong Kong’s coolest Soho bars and restaurants, surely the belt predicament was a minor hiccup in an otherwise fabulous night ahead!

So here’s my take on belts.

I have a strict rule that I never ever wear belts with formal suits and only ever wear belts with casual trousers. That is not to say that I am ok with empty belt loops, as to me an empty belt loop kind of looks like you are only partly dressed. Rather than having belt loops on my suit trousers I opt for side adjusters that neatly ensure my trousers remain where they should. Side adjusters result in a very clean line around the waist and give a very polished appearance. This neat little trick is very common in European suits and I can always tell straightaway where a gentleman has most recently lived or worked by weather he has side adjusters on his suit trousers or not.

The Gurkha Trouser.

Currently we are seeing a resurgence in the Gurkha style trouser. The method of keeping the trousers in just the right place is quite ingenious, with two flaps that tie across your middle and do up in a manner similar to side adjusters. The look is outstanding and best suited with higher waisted linen trousers. I’ve provided a photograph of a pair of Gurkha trousers, of which I have two pairs, below.

Belts.

As mentioned, I only ever wear belts casually. However I must say that one of my proudest moments was purchasing a Hermes belt from London’s Bond Street in the 90’s. In my opinion the gold ‘H’ Hermes belt is the pinnacle of belts and looks fabulous with white jeans, not to mention a host of coloured trousers as well.

Over the years I’ve acquired belts from Prada, Dunhill, Ralph Lauren, Etro and a rather large gold double ‘G” from Gucci in Rome that I bought in 2000.

Less label focused these days, I really do love some of Ralph Lauren’s preppy ribbon belts. Again if you wear them tied at your hip, you end up with a super clean line around your waist which I think looks outstanding. I have not been shy to also experiment with some of my older ties using them as belts, the look can be just as cool without the financial outlay.

My tips for keeping your trousers firmly where they should be;

  • If you are having a suit made, always opt for side adjusters, you will achieve a far more polished look.
  • If you are buying a suit off the rack, then some stores will provide a service whereby the belt loops can be removed and replaced with side adjusters.
  • If your suit has belt loops, always wear a belt, I’d opt for an understated belt, rather than an Elvis in Vegas special.
  • Ribbon belts are inexpensive and look super stylish.

If you can’t do it in style, then don’t do it.

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